Individual Coaching
Got sticky situations? Here is help.
You need a better map, and
You need a new approach.
You’ve read the self-help books and you know there is a better way.
Then why is it so damned hard to find?
You’re tired of promises that don’t deliver, and exasperated by people who listen as if they are up on the mountaintop, talking serenely about self-love but offering no tangible path to it.
You are up to the task, if only you knew where, and HOW, to begin.
And how to stay motivated.
What you don’t need are platitudes that sound good and
change. absolutely. nothing.
You see, there are tangible skills to build on this journey of life. There is mystery, and there is also the need for some good old fashioned information. Common sense. Guard rails and ‘life hacks’ that actually work.
More than anything, you are sick of the pain, sick of the fear, sick of waiting for your life to feel better.
So you are ready for action. Willing to workout and practice. You just don’t know what to do. Because if you knew what to do, you wouldn’t be here.
You Don’t need a guru,
You need an excellent guide.
A guide that helps you…
find your path through the wilderness.
Making order out of chaos: that would be a good start.
Navigating the underbrush of tricky interpersonal dynamics, past the old self-sabotaging patterns, and avoiding the lies you’ve been told (and the ones you’ve told yourself).
I’ve worked with people of all ages, from toddler to elder. I know that teaching is an art as much as a skill. It’s about relationships, yes.
It’s also about building concrete capacities.
It’s about digging into the sticky situation and clearing the path OUT.
You want someone real, who has been there and can be IN it with you – just enough to help sort it OUT.
enigmatologist of the Psyche
Life is a multi-dimensional puzzle.
It requires a riddler who knows her way around, and out of the proverbial rabbit hole. The thicket. The hornet’s nest. A real person with whom you can laugh and cry, grieve and rejoice, giggle and feel damned angry at times.
All in a safe space.
You frankness and honesty, and you also need kindness. Because you know you need to learn to hold yourself accountable in a new way. A way that is affirming and strengthening, not self-destructive.
Before you know it, you will have new ways of being…
Become your own VORTEX
You might be surprised how close to the surface the deep places are hiding. Those lovely mineshafts we fall down without warning, sending us spiraling.
We will learn the master patterns for how to experience your life. We will identify YOUR pattern, and then you can choose how, and when, and how much you want to evolve and grow.
Your terms. Your timing. Your growth.
Sometimes it feels effortless.
And…
Let yourself be joyful
Shaking ourselves loose from the habits of a lifetime takes time, persistence and plenty of grace. In some sense, on the journey we are always at the beginning.
And yet…
The world is a beautiful place when we open to ourselves. The light comes in more softly. Our eyes gentle. We learn to walk with ourselves as a friend would, patiently listening and grateful for the good company.
So, we are always on the journey, always in the midst of some great discovery, and always at completion.
Every day when you close your eyes to sleep – let there be a restful sigh of culmination. Something is behind you, something is before you, and at the same time you are right here. Right now. And you always were.
Working with me will bring you peace of mind and resolve to tackle both the big issues of your life, as well as the tiny details that so easily derail us.
I know, because I have done it myself. I am on the journey, too.
Clarity Coaching Packages
Help you to get good at handling this world even as you prepare for the more beautiful world that is coming. We will turn your pain into fuel.
Introductory
3-month package
12 Individual sessions
Energy Leadership Assessment
Learning Styles & debrief
2 emergency phone calls
Clarity
6-month package
20 individual sessions
Energy Leadership Assessment
Learning Styles & debrief
3 emergency phone calls
Transformation
12-month package
40 individual sessions
Energy Leadership Assessment
Learning Styles & debrief
4 emergency phone calls