OUT of the Rat Race

This isn’t some scary trust fall…


It’s about having vision,

and getting real.

Exhilarating and strategic

While each ramp is unique, the design principles are universal.

We’re going to plan around a reasonable amount of risk. We’ll get gritty and remain calm. You’ll dream extravagantly and stay sober.

And yes, we’ll have to work on this issue you have with money.

You are going to get VERY creative. And resilient. And you’ll be using your resources even as you cultivate new ones.

Plan to redefine your meaning of success.

UPon leaving the Rat RAce

Dad had spent his whole life telling me to do what made me happy. So his lack of understanding, let alone enthusiasm, was disappointing.

“No, Dad, I just don’t want to live to work. I want to live my one wild and precious life to the fullest!”

He shook his head, incredulous, with palpable distain.


Even my Dad – who had lived his life on his own terms and had shown me how to do it – could not support me.

It’s not that Dad didn’t love me, it’s that he couldn’t understand. Not many people did. Even I struggled to understand for a long time…

The life I had planned on when I was in my 20s. The one where I could live in Europe for 3 months while working. Or be deeply present when my father died. Or take a precious trip with my daughter.

Or donate hundreds of hours working for an ecovillage movement in Minnesota, or building a temple sacred to the deep feminine in my back yard, tending my regenerative garden, supporting a temple project in the UK, writing a book, hosting sacred women’s gatherings and biking to the lake in the summer for an early morning dip…

All while supporting others to make their life more wonderful.

IN the end…

One minute I’m running like a rat on a never-ending wheel, then next I am free as a bird. We’ve got to navigate the sheer g-forces of change.

It’s intoxicating, and easy to fritter time away.

What is the balance of work and play, of forward momentum and being in the moment?

How do I motivate myself out of love, instead of fear or habit? All that, and still keep the (proverbial) wolves from the door.

It takes grit and discipline to leave the Rat Race.


It’s totally worth it.

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